More success for your dating and relationships

Wondering how to become more successful with women? Success depends on the very specialized task of making sure you are attractive to women and best of all that you can understand their aspirations, way of thinking, their feelings and other stuff

Most males will argue that females are very strange beings with unusual mind-set, but they fail to address the needs of the woman they refer to. They fail to understand her needs, fail to take corrective action, fail to think outside their selfishness. Understanding the other half of your relationship and avoiding to impose your way of thinking into her mentality can dramatically improve your “status” in your woman’s eyes and your relationship will enter a completely new era.

If you feel that this is not something that suits your character or your ego, just stop it right there and avoid driving your relationship in more painful situations for both yourself and your woman. Just be sincere and walk off. Nobody can prove you wrong and most importantly you can focus on things you love most without the disturbance of your relationship.

Which day of the week is best for dating?

Some people prefer to date during weekends. Married men tend to date girfriends during weekdays so as not to raise suspicions.

But what is the ideal day for dating?

I'd say Saturdays are always best. You don't have to go to work the following day, you can stay out drinking and partying longer.

On the other hand, many likeminded people do the same on Saturdays, so most proper places are overbooked, noisy and can be unpleasant.

Going at a restaurant which is packed full is not my ideal scenario for dating. The buzz around you makes dating unexpected and can destroy the magic (if any).

Those who can afford it, booking at a luxury hotel and not having to care is best, but if you prefer your place you need to prepare and follow my earlier advice.

Also women tend to enjoy the fun at a "buzzy" nightclub, or a bar. But during weekdays this can be a lot of fun in a very pleasant environment.

When a girl is let down...

Men lose patience and make careless decisions when they feel rejected, starting to get furious, feel treated bad etc.

Usually small little details don't matter. For example you might have dated a girl who does not want to get into a steady relationship.

The reason may be quite unbelievable, but try to think about the woman you are dating, her needs within the context of events happening that may keep her focus on anything other than having a lovely relationship with a man and focusing on getting a family together.

Timing is of essence here and don't get yourself into the silly arguments of the type "but you are living in New York, I am living in New York, so nothing can go wrong"...

Just face it like a man and move on. There's plenty of girls, women, ready for anything you wanna do (almost)...

Cooking advice when you have to cook food

When cooking a meal for dating the important thing to remember is to cook something light. This can lead to problems you haven't probably imagined yet, so here's the full story.

Cooking something light is perfect for combining with white wine, so get your wine pairing skills up to date and cook something impressive.

Here are some tips on wine pairing:

• Try cooking the Beef Tenderloin Medallions with Potato Risotto, and accompany that with a Shiraz (preferrably from Australia). View the recipe @ Epicurious
• Another good recipe is the Fettuccine with Wilted Escarole and Mushrooms, particularly well combined with some white Semillon wine from Washington
• Try some delicious fish dishes and if you're in New York you have plenty of options to go find some fresh one. Try some Pinot Noir with baked fish and it can work wonders. Otherwise fish combines well with white wine. 

Best dating plan to make an impression

It is always best to have planned well for your first date and do take into consideration to have alternative options to bail you out when in trouble.  Many say love always starts with a proper dinner at a romantic restaurant, but that may not always be the case.

While a restaurant is probably a good idea, your chance to impress can come from your creative thinking into doing something together, so the ice breaks more easily (especially if you're on a blind date).

So my best dating plan is as follows. Do as you please with it.

• Meet-up in a cafe or bar near the city/town center.
• Make sure the way to the restaurant from the bar has some nice venues to see (and comment on).
• Find a bar with nice views of the city and have a relaxed drink.

If you manage to find yourself with your date a couple of hours after these steps, it means you have been successful.

Practical Advice For The First Date

Laura’s first advice blog about dating - Keeping some rules in your daily life can dramatically impact your ability to sustain relationships with women and keep them attracted to you.

Your first date is the one that is most likely to show you if you’ve been successful or not. Women have certain things they get annoyed about, so get to know the basics to succeed.

• Be smart but not too much and always show confidence in your speech and your body movements. Body language is crucial here.
• Keep your personal hygiene up to the highest standard and keep it that way forever.
• Sometimes being shy can lead to problems and opportunities missed. Show some real confidence in yourself and project your best abilities.
• If you’re planning to bring your date at home, just make sure it is immaculately clean and make sure other people in your bathroom can breathe.
• Find the skills you are best at and keep improving them. Only after you’ve been in a few different dates you’ll start to realize your real abilities.
• Don’t mention anything bad or strange or weird about the person you are dating. Although it may seem funny to you it probably isn’t going to help.
• Do comment on things you see her being good at and focus on being genuine.
• Just be yourself so others can know you and understand your needs.
• Wear that nasty smelling perfume you have. Women love nice smells.
• Don’t go too fast into saying how much you like her. Just wait till you both feel the same “magic in the air”.

My new blog with advice on dating women

Hello everyone,

I am opening this blog to post about my dating experiences and for what my good friends consider very helpful advice when deting women.

Others have their own interests... What excites me is to look for romance in a unique way again and again and again... Live new experiences, meet wonderful people and best of all spend some relaxing and meaningful time away from home and away from work.

xx...