Sunday, October 9, 2011

The great kiss for dating success

Don't give yourself into passionately kissing using primarily your tongue and not your lips. Both women and men enjoy a certain amount of kissing. Certain so it can please and not become a nuisance.

Experiment with your partner and don't immediately get into too much passion as this can get in the way of your dating success. After you've told your match how magical it feels with him/her with you and how beautiful he/she looks, try to experiment with what your date enjoys and not how it is meant to be for you.

Enjoy the kissing and always look for new ways of kissing which will provide better satisfaction and more enjoyment for both, and to avoid it becoming a rather monotonous habit. Alongside what everyone enjoys is what makes the other happy as well. Just don't push it to the limits.

Also try to be in private first until you realize what your date feels comfortable with. Sometimes in crowded places emotions can run dry, especially during the first dates. Being in public adds another pressure which you probably want to avoid. Having a clean breath also adds to the enjoyment so make sure you get yourself into the habit of brushing your teeth at least twice daily for lasting results.

Sunday, October 24, 2010

My Top 5 Free Dating Sites

So far I’ve been using some really good free dating networks for those that can not or should not use a credit card to register. These sites offer great value even if free and can help you meet new and interesting people online and possibly date offline afterwards.

So let's move on quickly, here's my top5 free dating sites. 

Plenty of Fish is one of the biggest and most famous free dating sites which any blog talking about free dating sites should mention. Very popular in Canada, the UK, Australia and the United States but also in other parts of the world, Plenty of fish is the creation of Markus Frind and relies on advertising to generate necessary revenue. A premium paid membership is also available, marking such users as “Serious”. There are reportedly over 11 million members on this network.

Woo Me is a personals and dating community with mostly people under 40 years old. It is a relatively new player in the market but its technology has been favored by users. It’s speed-dating feature where users have “speed dates” via webcam and microphone is very cool, finding you matches fast.

This free dating network with tens of thousands of users worldwide is a very reliable and “hassle-free” site to find a new date. Features are not anything great but Date Hookup is quickly becoming a favorite to users.

Its matchmaking approach and unbelievable free membership make OkCupid one of the top dating sites, competing easily with some premium services out there. Loads of people into alternative relationships and dating are using this side.

One large network with many international users and social networking applications is Casual Kiss. Casual Kiss is mostly favored by younger audiences but has many rich features.

Personally would recommend creating profiles on all of them and find out the one that you feel most comfortable using. Each has unique features and all are useful and fit the purpose of finding a date without a credit-card.

Friday, October 22, 2010

Be Wary of Your Status and Public Profile Updates on Social Networks and Dating Sites

As we become more technologically savvy, the Internet is becoming increasingly a necessary research tool of online activities of others. Think about how  many people could track your secret dating activities simply by doing a Google search.

You might also find yourself in strange and awkward situations when posting photos, real-world activity updates (think FourSquare) and other information that can link you to an activity you don't feel confident other people knowing about you, say in your work environment.

Many people I know try to use different profiles and even different simcards on their mobile phones as a security precaution, but still you may not fully realize the extent of your actions until you are confronted in a bad situation.

My Top Five - the best dating free sites

Dating sites have been online for years, but now that Internet dating becomes a clear alternative for services paid matchmaking dating online became really popular. But of course, no dating sites some costs are better than the rest.

The sites below are the best free dating sites on the web today.

 Kiss casual.This is a great site to meet with young people.Many customers are under 25 years old, and uses social networks in its connections.Occasional Kiss is fun and branché.Parfait for young professionals looking for like-minded singles in the same spirit.

OkCupid. Messenger of love is well living on this site. Apart from the fact that it is free, it still offers all the advantages of boys big image, along with personality testing. Unlike many dating sites, OkCupid allows you to connect with everyone, even to people with whom you are not compatible. It also allows you to create a profile which gives you the ability to use many different search options to find dating mates. More intimate you are looking for something just a date, you should check out AdultFriendFinder. Sexy photos here with you to find thousands of like minded adults, cases, discrete relationships and sexual encounters will demand. Best of all it is free to register so what are you waiting for?

Woo me. This is certainly one of the greatest free dating sites. Most peple on Woo me belong in the middle-aged demographic and creating a new account is quick and easy. The speed dating functionality is one of the most popular aspects of this Web site. Using this, a person can have a speed date of computer accessories.

Date of connection. If you are simply searching for a quick and easy date without any fussy long-term obligations, it is the ideal site.The Matchmaking Online website is not big on the elements, but it's so user-friendly that even those who feel very amateur with computers can use the site.

Ok there must be thousands more but I think these are some of my favorite ones.

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

How to approach a woman you never knew before

How can I seduce a nice girl I am starring at in the bar? This is perhaps one of the most frequently asked dating questions and certainly there is no easy answer to this. It all depends on the environment you both happen to be in, other people who may be interfering etc. So it all comes down to your specific situation.

Seduction (meaning attraction) is not about some secret or magic skills that will “make the trick" and make women instantly fall in love. It is a natural consequence from a series of actions and reactions and the only way to be successful in this is to have worked some quality skills which can help you manage each situation accordingly.

Instead of focusing on a fantastic magic trick, let’s get the facts right and get better at seducing women. Here are my top 2 dating tips that all men need to work out to be more successful with their dating efforts.

- Observation

When you are in a bar or other public place, the first thing to do is start observing the women that seem to be alone or seem to be "playing games" with their eyes and smiles. When you do notice some interesting presence in the crowd, start observing what she does or what she talks about with her friend. Also try to notice things like a tattoo, a truly nice piece of jewelry, etc. That should give you plenty of ideas regarding what her immediate interests are. That way when the time is right, you have things to start a chat and gain her interest.

- The big step

Recently I was offering some counseling and advice service to someone who had trouble approaching women (let alone seducing them). The most troublesome of his experiences is when he likes a woman whom he never met before and wants to approach and get to meet with her. It is much easier than most men think, as long as you keep cool, show confidence and read my other blog posts for more advice and tips on how to improve your skills.

Stop thinking about your sexual appetites for a minute and just play it plain and cool. Don't act heavily and do not cause the woman to fall in 2 minutes.

It is as simple as having something to comment on and get yourself up there and make that comment without letting fear or anything else come in your way. Play safe and cool and it all will go well.

And don't get into the disappointing mode if you get rejected. Not every woman is free and up for dating. Gently walk and move on to the next adventure. In the end you have nothing to lose and you may as well never meet that woman ever in your life again.

And make pretty well sure you have some good comment to make, rather than "I love your boobies babe".

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Be pleased but also be a pleasant lover

It is nice to be pleased by a fancy lady but in a date theres always 2 sides dating not just you. It is important to your success to understand that women were not meant to be pleasing in bed but also need some tender pleasure.

Put interesting things and acts together that you both enjoy and who knows, you might have a very nice treat every now and then. It is a give and get situation and it is important that both parties have an equal share of the pleasure pie.

Also don't just act for your temporal surge and then sleep. Make sure the chemistry and atmosphere is right before jumping into your game.

No Condoms No Excuse

Men tend to not have grown up sometimes. What do you mean you want to have sex even if you forgot your fancy night glowing condoms? This is not only dangerous for yourself but is dangerous for the women you get in contact with.

So rule #1 and must have is at least 3 condoms in your wallet or coat.