It is nice to be pleased by a fancy lady but in a date theres always 2 sides dating not just you. It is important to your success to understand that women were not meant to be pleasing in bed but also need some tender pleasure.
Put interesting things and acts together that you both enjoy and who knows, you might have a very nice treat every now and then. It is a give and get situation and it is important that both parties have an equal share of the pleasure pie.
Also don't just act for your temporal surge and then sleep. Make sure the chemistry and atmosphere is right before jumping into your game.