Friday, March 19, 2010

How to keep your relationship healthy when married with kids

Women tend to live more lively these days with many now doing professional careers and are away from home for many hours each day. Daily life can become dull and meaningless when you start to think more about the problems than the things you love.

Having kids makes that even harder and problems with your wife can start becoming a frustration. So how do you spice up your relationship?

A woman can be deeply hurt if she feels that she is not wanted. That is when you might notice her behavior starts to change and she begins questioning things and trying to make a point.

Personally think it all starts from our sex lives. If we can’t find harmony, fulfillment and happiness in our sexual lives then life itself starts becoming dull and boring, something that also influences our relationships.

Freshness always keeps us going through our work lives, so either you spend some meaningful time together or just forget about it altogether. Start doing things you both like and not just what you only like. Try to bridge that communication gap and talk about the problems with your relationship or marriage with your woman.

If that doesn’t work take some time off. Spend 2-3 weeks away and then meet-up again to see how it feels. Does it feel fresh? Do some of the initial magic in your relationship still dominates the atmosphere?

If the answer to any of the above questions is yes then you probably need to reconsider your behavior and make your woman do the same. Spend some good time together and cheer up your kids as well. If too many such problems start to happen in your relationship, they can also affect your kids so start making a wise choice for yourself and everyone else.

So do take that occasional luxury hotel private moments, do go out for a lovely meal, do join in with friends and start moving on with thinking more about what you love than what turns you down.

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