Thursday, April 8, 2010

Feel addicted to sex or anything but sex?

Lets face it, this blog is mainly visited by male readers so this post is about those of you who just can't think of anything else but sex.with your date. This is something called addiction and is considered to be an addiction similar to alcohol or drugs.

It is quite hard to identify the symptoms or even get to admit you are an addict, but with the rate of people freely browsing through pornography on the Internet or getting into phone sex are constantly increasing, and this does not only include men but also 20% of those are women.

Finding the right balance between your fantasy and your real world is very important, primarily for your date to be able to cope with your daily needs. Especially during your first few dates it is impossible to notice or even care about that.

The best thing to do is to visit a therapist and start working your way out of this viscious cycle. Also a good advice is to start preferring to go out and socialize than stay in and focus on your sexual feelings at home.

Being an addict can lead to severe problems for your partner and usually, since people find it very hard to realise or admit their addiction to sex, there is no other way than to break the relationship.

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